If you are coming across in a way that doesn't seem positive or constructive on this board, chances are that your W is getting the same "vibe"...
That's why, if you really do want to try to save the M, you really need to take a good look at yourself (we ALL do, this isn't a pick on fireman thing) and dump our negative stuff and work on our positive stuff.
A quote from a vet here is a really good base and is what DB is about... it goes:
"From this day forward..."
The past is the past that we learn from, but it is what we do RIGHT NOW and from this day forward, that just might help us save our M... and if not, at least we come out of this with more positive characters to move foward...
