I've been told that our children reflect the best parts of us... So if D is beautiful- guess what.... YOU are too!! Just remember, your H picked you. H saw something so beautiful in you that he wanted to make it his own... you ARE beautiful- no guessing about it!!!
I'm so happy for you that you've been able to have a few thoughts about a life without H, I've had those too lately. By no means is it what we would *choose* for ourselves, but the fact we can consider it (I think) means we are getting a healthier mind set.
((((BF)))))
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12