Go back and read the books, Dragy. Read read read read. They'll help you focus on how to react to H's behavior in a way that doesn't make things worse. Do something different! Ract in ways you wouldn't have before!
*HUGS*
Quote: One day last week I was trying to read the bible in the bedroom and he came in to talk and see what I was doing and lingered and lingered. I felt like he was trying to keep me from doing the thing we had agreed on....when it was the first time I had even tried in a while. We had words about it and he stomped out of the room.
Is it possible he wanted an invitation to read with you? Maybe a "Honey, want to sit down and read this psalm (or whatever) with me?", to make him feel included?
I know that I linger around people when I want to be included in things and can't come right out and say it.
I know you don't want to feel responsible for the worship, but maybe it's something you'll have to do for a little bit for the sake of your marriage. If it continues on for a long, long time, you can think of ways to gradually share the responsiblity, but your reconciliation is so new I'd stick with it for a bit and see what happens.
Don't forget, too, you can let the little things go. Some things aren't worth arguing about.
Good luck, sweety. I'm pulling for you and very, very sure you two can do this.
