I know you are right, 2TP. I guess I wasn't prepared to deal with this stage or what to expect. I mean, not at ALL. Part of me was just very excited by the prospect of being around her and my son again. I think I just red-lined the engine a bit. I need to slow it down and realize that we are still not "back". Better, but not back.
In a way, I was hoping that this phase would mark the end of the whole divorce proceeding. And who knows, maybe it will. Notwithstanding, at the end of this month we have a scheduled court appearance to determine some support issues. I really don't want to think about that much.
Are there any resources to leverage for this stage? Books? Anything? I don't want to blow this and it seems that if I pat TOO much attention it's not good and if I pay too little it is also bad. Don't now how to respond.
I won't contact her today unless she contacts me first. We have to exchange custody today so I am sure I will hear from her eventually.
This is a good problem to have, but a problem nonetheless.
