NB, are you still out there? Checking on all my buddies here.
Read over your 1/27/12 post. I think telling him you love him, want him, and would be willing to stop all other dating activities to work on the M is the right thing to do. It's the truth. Yet, if he doesn't agree, what are you to do? Keep yourself on a shelf until he decides?
Don't forget, sometimes the WAS feels so guilty and ashamed that they get it in their heads that you wold never want them back.
A long time ago my neighbor told me that she had had an A and her H found a letter she wrote. He took her for a ride and showed her the letter and then asked her what she wanted to do. She told him she wanted him and the M. She said he folded up the letter and said, "Alrighty then." He never mentioned the A again.
So, stop in and update us, OK?
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.