BTW - H's 50th birthday is next weekend. Not sure if I should plan anything or give him anything. Any advice? If I don't get him anything, he may feel slighted or ignored, but if I do give him something, would that be considered pursuing?

I am sure he is feeling the pressure of that and he now has to wear glasses because his sight is not great anymore. My H has an issue with image.


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Me 44
H 51
T 15 yrs
M 9+ yrs
No Kids
"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."