I figured this was going to happen. It is the way some women are. As Kat points out - she didn't want you but she didn't want anyone else to have you either. Ex seems very controlling. I had no doubt that she was. She wanted it all - kids, lover and a man around to help. Hmmm - she sees new woman as a threat to her perfect little world.
Now, you can be sure that new woman WILL find ex a threat. She is not in a position to show that yet. But she will. Anyone would feel somewhat threatened by the R that you have with your ex. So much family stuff and everyone is so cool with it. All was good in that little world as long as you did Ex's bidding and you did not see what might happen.
OK - so, that said - your ex has no right to tell you what to do. She has no say in when you see your new woman. But she'd like to control it - that's for sure! Unless you were not taking care of your girls. Not disciplining them. Helping out with homework or making sure they're being fed, nurtured - that would be a reason for her to be involved. But you would never let that happen. Spending one day a week with a new woman is your right and absolutely none of her business! Do not let her have any say in your personal life AT ALL!!!!
And Wii - stop telling wife any details of your love life (I think I warned you about the perils of that one) and also - if you're spending time with your ex and "being a family" - don't share it all with new woman. You NEED to keep some of your life secretive. Hold your cards closer to your chest. You are WAY too trusting of people and sometimes that bites you in the butt. And this is one of those times. Remember we told you about "mystique". Keep remembering that - hold some things back!
OK - all that said - have fun today with new woman. Enjoy your dinner and movie!
