Wendy, The ow is pulling out all of the stops to make your h feel guilty, guilty enough to want to be w/her. She will use that suicide stunt again very soon if she can't get him to focus on her.
I'm so sorry that he's swinging back and forth. Just remember, it's all part of the mlc process and you've done an excellent job thus far. Listen to what he says and and continue to validate how he feels. It is very important for him to know that you are listening to him.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
