Ouch. Okay guys, now this OP sounds strong, and is ready to carry on.
And while of COURSE I agree that children make an M more, .... salvagable, and length of M too, I just don't understand how a man who cheats is 'flawed' where one who goes and does the same offence who has been married and commited for years, who has children he is suppose to protect and love, does it is any better?
I myself have gotten very little support on these boards because my R is only a year and a half total and we were only engaged. Fair enough. I guess people don't relate to my sitch and thats fine.
But I really hate to see this for others because it hurts to come on here and look seek out help only to be told that your paticular sitch is not worth fighting for b/c their are no children or years involved.
