I bought him a book (on Wedndesday) thathe wanted this past fall when we had no money. He thanked me and hugged me.
Previously, I always had the philosophy that since neither he nor 1st husband was much good at it, I bought myself what I wanted, within reason. This past year, we were quite poor, and I only had a part time job when H left. Part of the resentment is that while I was just getting by, he was living it up. I still had the bills, he still had the income. oh well.
"Being at peace with yourself is a direct result of finding peace with God."
And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Phillipians 4:7