I just cannot figure out where, along the way, the respect was lost. I need advice on the 180. My natural tendency is to talk (a lot) and to make all of the moves in terms of starting conversation about these issues. I am also the one to try to initiate any physical contact. I think I have become predictable in my actions. Could this lead to the lack of respect? I am always the one trying to make everything right. Is the 180 advisable here and if so, what are the best ways to proceed?