i packed all of his things today...and called him from outside his new apartment...asked him how it was and told him he might want to come outside...he said why, i said to pick up all your s&^!T. i just threw it out of the car and into the snow in front of his place...i think he was SHOCKED. shocked that i did it, that i am not sitting at home pineing over him, etc. he barely said anything. just asked me not to throw it. i said when you show me respect, i will show you respect.
to be honest it felt good. i'm not putting up with being disrespected and if it means this pushed him away so be it. its just not good enough.
