2step thanks for the advice/input, I am always looking for any advice I can get.

Went to first AA meeting on Thursday night, more on that later.

W dropped S off on her way to work. I asked her for a favor as we were going into the house, if she could copy some discs for me. She seemed a bit agitated when she answered me, so I asked her what was wrong.

She started crying saying she had a terrible day, she wasn't feeling well, she was trying to do our taxes, she was trying to sell her(my) car, trying to sell her engagement ring, trying to fix a computer and a TV for people I work with and S was pestering her all day.

She said she didn't get anything wrong, and felt like crap and couldn't call off from work.

I let her vent and told her things will be alright. I told her to just take it one day at a time and there was no rush.

She said she didn't have money because her car payments were to high and that's why she needed to sell car.

I told her I wouldn't let her struggle and again to take it one day at a time. It was very dificult not reaching out and holding her as she was crying.

She finished venting, I offered her some Advil and she left for work, I told her to try and make the best of her day.

Did I handle this right?

She will be by later tonight to pick S up (S will be asleep by then around 11pm), is there any advice on anything here.

M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped