Thanks V, 2step. Feeling pretty alone these days.

Since my nowXW moved 1500 miles away 5 months ago, she has cut off virtually all contacts with her friends here, and has been heavily dependant on an old girlfriend who lives 3 hours from her in her new state, and an old boyfriend in an adjacent state who is now the OM. Only two people in the world she talks to.

Got a late night call out of the blue from her girlfriend. She tells me she "does not know who (my wife) is any more" and does not know where her head is. So now my depressed XW is almost completely isolated, with no one but this new OM in a rebound relationship. To say I am concerned about her is a major understatemnt


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012