The money issue sounds wierd... is he living back at home with you already? If so, how come he isn't pitching in with his share? Have you broached the subject, or are you expecting him to do the right thing on his own, or what?
Hope those with experince come here with some helpful advice, you sound like you REALLY need it.
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