He told me he is deploying soon. She told my H he was being kicked out of the service.
Oh, she's a lying piece of work, isn't she???
There's a certain type of manipulative OW who is particularly good at playing the damsel in distress, at trying to usurp the life of someone they envy - she sounds like one of those. Stick to the high road, stay FAR away from her nuttiness, and your H will likely come to the realization eventually that she's a whack job. Just be prepared for a couple go rounds on the rollercoaster still - H's like yours do get a little addicted to the drama.
