Glad you are doing ok. You did the right thing by speaking with an attorney. I myself am an attorney, and despite the obvious biases, it is usually always a good idea to see one if you think you need it. Sounds like you picked a good one who isn't going to push you into anything. Excellent choice! Lots of times, people pick the wrong attorney, who just wants to fight for fighting sake and that's not usually a good idea.
Anyway, this thing is over when you want it to be over. If you don't believe that, go back and read my posts. Divorced in December 2010. Wife came back once, left again and I'm still on the train. We had a great visit today. The only reason we had the nice time today is b/c I haven't given up. I guess what I'm saying is, don't give up unless you want to, and only then give up after careful consideration and taking a calm cool look at your situation. Not in an emotional moment for sure. I hope all goes well for you...you're doing well, regardless of how you see it. Good luck!
