Congratulations, Endeavour. that was a wonderful post full of knowledge and understanding. I am happy that you were able to save your marriage. And while your H says he would have been willing to go to Retrouvaille before the crisis, I wonder.
Thank you, Lotus. You were the one who first suggested Retrouvaille to me and I'm grateful.
Actually, I do believe he would have been open earlier because I was skeptical too but he did remind me that I gave him the ILYBINILWY speech first (years ago), and I refused to go to counselling when he suggested it so you never know.