I'm still practicing LRT, though not as thorough as I used to. Not that I backslide, but just haven't used all the steps (and only because the opportunities presented aren't as obvious as, say, in the earlier/crazier part of our separation).
I went back and read the chapter again, though. Based on the writing, I don't see how it would be called "pursuing" if I asked my wife about why she thinks I might be going to the East with her. I agree it's "pursuing" if I repeatedly bug her about it, if I frequently bring it up.
That's not to say that I will ask my wife per Shaky's suggestion, but there may come a time when I/we might have to.
At the moment, I will stick to my plan to remain in California and try to get full custody of our son. However, if I do entertain the idea of moving, I have a few questions to ask you folks (before I approach my lawyer):
- What is the divorce law in either SC or Tennessee? My wife has filed for divorce here in CA, but if she moves and so do I, how would the divorce be executed then?
