I see the dinner as positive for the most part. However, tonight we went out to dinner after my oldest s's last bball game of the season and my W was texting throughout the entire dinner.
This really bothers me that she can't be present w/ us and put her phone away but I didn't say anything about it. I think I may not continue to invite her out to dinner w/ us for a while as it bothers me too much and thus causes me to not enjoy myself as much.
This is one behavior that must be addressed and modified if we are to ever R. I will not stand for the person I am sharing a life with to act disintersted and not be present with me. This behavior has caused us arguments in the past but I have detached enough to not allow it to bother me as much and I have chosen not to say anything. Yet!
Someone remind me why we fight so hard and endure so much pain for someone who does not want to be with us?
