And I actually think that the trip presents you with a GREAT opportunity to focus on YOU and pamper YOURSELF.
You know the sun itself will make you feel better.
It will for sure! Just the sounds and smells. I am also going to go for a full-moon beach gallop that a nearby stable offers
Plan it ahead as if you are going ALONE. Have NO EXPECTATIONS that P is coming.
I was just so thrown off that he'd think I'd want him to come. He's been horrendously horrible to me. It's kind of funny
- If you like learning languages, practice some Spanish before leaving and take this trip as a chance to really learn the language and also meet people! Most Mexicans are friendly by nature and like tourists.
They actually offer free daily lessons at the resort Gonna take them
- I don't know about what part of Mexico you are going to , but learn about that place - if you like sightseeing or history, you can really learn about the culture.
Thank you! I might just take you up on that
It's in the MAyan Riviera, about 20 mins outside Playa Del Carmen.
- As for the food and drinks, do I really have to point out the pluses there?
Lol no you don't!
- Journal, write while enjoying the sun / beach / pool. Work on getting in touch with who you really are. Do you know? Figure out what you want, work on establishing some goals and making a GAL plan for when you get back home.
I'm thinking about trying to pen a short story a la Sex and the City style and maybe submit it to magainzines. Based on what it's like to go to your wedding/honeymoon alone and put a funny twist on it
BTW - I am Mexican, so if you need any tips, hit me up. I'll be happy to share and help in any way.
plan as if he is not coming. I sure wish you could reach out to more peeps in your world b/c
I seriously doubt NONE of them can go in lieu of him...but One11,
Its not that they won't, it's that they can't. its in the terms of the trip. Then the other day my boss/friend looked in to renting her own room and the resort is sold out.
read nothing into his going if he does. Frankly I'm stunned at the gall it takes for him to assume he can if he wants...or not...
as if it's all up to him, and you have no choice.
I laughed in my cubicle today when I read it. but I was nice and gentle as I'm trying to keep the peaace here. I do have to live with him for 6 weeks Its because Ive been so nice and accomodating to him since all this stuff started going down. Im sure thats why he thinks I'm thrilled by his email today lol
You do not OWE it to him regardless of what your original deal was. That kind of changed when he said he wanted you out of his life...
Puuuhhhllllleeeeaaaasssseeee...
Right now I don't even want to go with him. So I will see when the time comes how things are. I am really trying to take it all as it comes
More importantly, Have fun now AND then, and get your real self back asap!!
Gonna take them 
