I've decided to take my ring with me, just I case. My family and friends all know of our sitch- so I'm not trying to keep up appearances.
Tonight is my last night here and I really tried to have no expectations... But there was a little piece of me that had hoped H would come him and choose to spend some time with me. But instead, it's 7pm now and I haven't heard from H ALL DAY! This is the first time in 9 years that he has never called me... Kinda sad.
There are a few things coming up this week at S school, and I was hoping to discuss with H before I leave- because he always complains when he feels like I 'leave him to figure things out'- he says it feels like I'm setting him up for failure. BUT the other option I have is to leave him a note/list explaining the events.... This has also been received, in the past, as me telling him that he's incompetent and I'm trying to control the sitch by telling him what to do.... I CAN'T WIN!!!
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12