I am 31, my wife is 30. Together off and on for 8 years. Married for a little over 2. We've been in counseling for 6 months. My wife ha felt there is "no connection." I don't disagree. Sex life has been very poor. I always initiate. Wife told me last night he is thinking about moving out next month when the condo she owns will be vacant. Says she's doesn't respect me like she once did. She has always had the power balance in relationships and that's what she has here. She doesn't seem to like that. She feels that being in love makes one vulnerable and she doesn't like feeling vulnerable. She says I provide for her, show her love and affection but now she claims we have nothing in common. I love this woman with all my heart and would do anything to rekindle the old passion. We're in the same house for at least the next month. What can or should I do of I want to regain her respect and interest in making this work? She needs to want me again. That's what has to happen. What's a "180" in this this circumstance? Please help. Look forward to hearing your thoughts. I could use the support.
