Aeryn, you're right. I don't feel the need to interrogate him, and what needs to come out, will.
We are going to turn the 'when to move back' over to the Lord along with the rest.
I am concentrating on being wise about this second chance. If anyone doesn't believe that God will use something like this to get your attention, I am proof. I had become so distant from H and God, even bitter.
"Being at peace with yourself is a direct result of finding peace with God."
And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Phillipians 4:7