I rather doubt he would blame it on me intentionally, but it's entirely possible that the ADs are affecting him and he assumes it must be me/us that is the problem. As he is a cash patient (no insurance because of pre-existing conditions) he rarely makes follow-up appointments. So no, he hasn't talked to his doctor about much of anything. I did suggest he should consider it has something to do with his ADs in an e-mail a week or so ago, he never replied to the e-mail.
I'd tried lingerie a few other times over the years. Much more positive responses in the past. The last 6 months have been very hit or miss. Sometimes, like before Halloween, the pirate boots I ordered for a costume were quite a hit. Other times, nothing. It seems very random to me, I've not been able to put a pattern to it.
Yeah, specifics would definitely be helpful. Not sure he'd even be open to a conversation, but that would be helpful. Guess I just have to figure out how much I might push him away by trying to raise such a conversation.
He still talks to me quite a bit. The longest we've gone without talking since the ILYBNILWY is 2 days. And I've been pretty dark with him, so he's initiated 95% of it. He's totally friendly, nice, wants to vent about work and such, asks how I'm doing, asks about the dog. Hell, when he came to get some stuff from my house he hooked up an old set of his speakers for my living room! It's totally different from XH (of course, with OW involved that one was a lot nastier, and I'm not missing the venom in this case) or any other break-up I've had.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
