And while its true that sometimes, you may win some, you might lose some too.
Everything is a risk. YOu want to make sure of your money? You might lose your husband....on the other hand, you waited for your husband, but ended up losing him plus your money too. Oh well... who ever said life is easy....
So I guess in the end it all depends upon what you value most. And what you are willing to lose. If Wendy feels that it was a single statement that was only a passing thought, does she really have to move? Did her husband show signs of fiscal irresponsibility aside from that comment?
We all view the world from our own experience so that is why for me, even when my H was spending more than usual during his MLC, I did notice that he was very sensitive about me doubting him in that aspect and even once told me that he would never put us in a financial bind.... so although i kept my eyes and ears open, I was careful not to let my doubts show.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go