Thank you all so much...I'll try to address all the questions.
Bklnmom- the original bomb was due to a big fight that ended up with me getting roughed up some. I moved out with the understanding he was going to get help, then he decided he didn't want me to move back. Thank you for your kindness and input!
SIAS- My GALing right now is pretty tough, since I have literally no money. As far as what has been successful, not much really. The only thing that has generated any real response is going dim/dark. That's what I'm doing right now. Thanks for following my sitch!
JB- you are the best, really. You are an inspiration and a rock in all this mess.
Val- thank you, I had to take a break for a while, but I'm glad to be back!
Sadly, when I told the L's that he wasn't giving me any money there isn't much you can do. The courts here are backed up, so even an 'emergency' hearing would take months, and nothing would happen to him except he'd have to pay it all back. That's great, but doesn't help me in the interim. I do have family that has already said they would help, but UGH!! I hate that, but I will do what I have to do.
You are correct, he doesn't care about me right now. Actions speak louder than any words he can say. I do have a game plan, including making sure I have my legal ducks in a row and nailing down one to use. I am quickly approaching a crossroad, its just really scary to try and figure out which way to go.
Thank you all so much for your input, the questions and comments help me focus. Sometimes I feel like I'm treading water and going absolutely no where. I need to get up and get going, and figure out what life is going to look like in the future. I think I am just overwhelmed, this is not how life was supposed to be, ya know? But it is, and now we deal with it.
Now that I'm back I'm trying to get caught back up with everyone here, but I do pray for the people on this MB everyday!
