OK so it is very possible that I am just interacting too much, and I really do want feedback from Vets if possible.
I don't know what to do when H flips the script on me. I get sucked in and feel like I need to explain or apologize. I drive myself nuts. It is possible I just need to stop talking and walk away.
So an example of what I am talking about is, H has been making plans for work trips. This is a new project but he is so excited to travel. It always bothered him if people would ask him about my job or work travel, he would shut down (never noticed this til recently
So he is making these plans and travels with his boss (male). When I was commenting on a conference with a work colleague via Facebook, he came home irate. All I said to the colleague was "I'd love to hear more about it" and he literally went off o me for a while.
He proceeded to say that its not "equal"..um ok??? and now he is due to go on another one. I proceeded to explain that i was only asking for information, and found it odd that he was watching my facebook like that.
The conversation was way too long and too destructive, and I told him that it was extremely juvenile.
Shocking that we need MC isn't it? Our communication skills are stellar.
Walking away may be best in a situation such as this, don't you think? I don't think he would be any more p!ssed than he already was.
