Not sure what to think about the latest turn of events. H and I got into it about an event for D, and he told me he was cutting me off from all money. I have since talked to a couple of L's but no good feeling about any of the ones I've interviewed yet, and now I am literally flat broke with no money to pay for anything. H texted today and said he had a change of heart about the money and will start paying again.
How frustrating.. and perhaps illegal? When you interviewed your L's.. what did they say about your H holding money from you?
What's your support system like? Are there family members or your church that you can reach out to financially?
Originally Posted By: realormakebeliev
Not so sure I want him back at this point. He has shown some serious character flaws that are both scary and frankly, not normal. I didn't have a chance to talk to him tonight because he was off to party with friends, so I guess we'll see. I don't see this being a big turnaround- I think its more likely he got some legal advice that said don't cut off your nose to spite your face.
I can totally relate to this. Sometimes I want to talk to W so bad about some of the crazy stuff she does.
As if the answer will make a difference.
The truth is that your H is going to do what HE feels best. He does not care about you in this moment in time.
I'm sorry if that is hurtful, but you need to talk less and do MORE.
It's not about talking to your H, it's about taking the steps to take care of yourself. It's about protecting yourself now.
How are you going to doing that? What's your gameplan?
Originally Posted By: realormakebeliev
Tonight I can't say how I'm feeling. Scared, lonely, tired and like I told a friend, stuck. Thank God for the good friends and family I've had to pull me through this. Don't know what I'd do without them.
((( )))
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