You are doing so good. Isnt it crazy how all songs are about love.
I dont know why I think this and I could very well be wrong but I think you should offer to make your trip 7 or 10 days. I think your H is going to use you going away for 2 weeks as something to unite with other woman. I think if you extend an olive branch of maybe shorting the trip slightly it will prevent him from using it against you. I also think the compromise would surprise him which is always good.
What your former BFF is doing is a sin. It is not your job to offer her forgiveness.
Dont let the anger consume you. Have you made to an Alanon meeting??
Brklyn - do you have a new thread? Can't find you. Hope you're well?