Ease on down the road....

[leopoldstotch]

DG, hang in there. We all have off days some more than others. My heart goes out to you. I don't wish any of this on my worst enemy. It's not over until you decide it's over. The best you can do is put it in God's hands. I know quite a few people who are divorced and they have all told me that "time heal all wounds", I hate that quote but they've all assured me that it is true.

I have my off days too and today is one of them but it's not as bad as in the past. Imagine being on this roller coaster with me. A month ago my W said she was going to move out at the end of Feb and into the house her brother is renting and they would split the rent. Well last week she tells me she isn't moving in with him because she thinks I'm going to screw her in regards to money. Then she proposes to draw up separation papers and have us sign them and I told her I'd have to look at it and see if I agree. Then she says see that's why I'm not leaving you are going to screw me...UGH! Just yesterday she informs me that she is now going to save money so she can move out on her own leaving me with our boys ages 22 and 14...oh the madness never ends!

I'm just like you in that I need to remind myself that I'm only responsible for my actions & decisions. The trying to what our S's are thinking just puts us on that emotional roller coaster which is not good for us LBS's. Glad you are feeling better today and I hope you enjoy your weekend you deserve it. Actually we all deserve it.