Enough with the lies - what is going on???

[imthemom]

enough...
If there is one thing I have come to terms with, it is they will lie..about everything...and have NO REMORSE or guilt. So you beating your head against a wall and trying to understand is useless. Its like trying to have a rational conversation with someone who is irrational...We dont think like them so it will NEVER make sense.

Someone told me after I caught my H in the A, that I should just move my stuff out of the house...look him in the face and say "ill miss you" and have no other contact with him as long as he was still involved with ow...I did move my stuff out but had a hard time cutting off contact. looking back now, I think if I would have done that things would be different now...so just my 2 cents..but I would do just what you said, pack up his stuff, tell him youll leave it on the porch for him or drop it off..and then go dark...