E: Thank you for posting. I started reading your threads from the beginning and will have to finish when I get home as I've not gotten very much work done.
Your situation is SO familiar. And YOU are inspiring. Your handling of it all is admirable.
I am like your H in the situation, and then my SO (we're not married) ended up being the WAS. I have already been stealing little snippets from your posts to try and learn. Can't wait to get home and read the rest
I am very glad to hear of your situation and it's meaning/healing/changing