VENTING>>>>>>>> How can someone continue to LIE LIE LIE..... 2 of my best friends stopped in last night with news on H. My cousin - saw H and OW in the airport together a few days ago in a different city. And when i confronted him on it he said he wanted to get away from all of this for a few days...which in and of itself is comical, and he happened to run into her in the airport as she was on her way back home for a professional school interview. He must think I am f&@%ing stupid! seriously. i said you could make this whole thing so much easier on yourself if you were honest.....i said do you even understand how ridiculous that sounds. my brothers response when i told him this was: i've been travelling back and forth between these 2 citys for 19 years and have only ever once seen someone i knew...and he goes once and runs into the girl that ruined his marriage....ridiculous.
i know i broke a whole lot of rules and did some major backsliding by losing my marbles at him last night but i can't be a pushover and i was sooo angry that he is still lying to everyone and being soooo disrespectful to me. This girl is 20! 20...he is 32...wheres the reality in that?? he said it was a coincidence and i couldn't believe he said it...i said you mean to tell me there was no direct flights out of the two busiest airports in canada to where we live and you just happened to be flying on the same day with the same stop over? he said yes....
i told him i can understand why he would need to get away, his life is really hard right now with having to keep all these lies straight and all.
he told me he couldn't afford to get our home appraised for sale yet can drop $1G to "get away for a few days away from all this mess (that he created)" and i think he was lying about moving out....
so i took "married to H" off my facebook page and packed up the reminder of his stuff last night... he has been staying at a male friends for the last 3 months, taking one shirt at a time....i'm not having that any more....i think i'm going to drop it off to him tomorrow and be done with it. until he can show me respect i can't have this in my life.....
and to be honest this wasn't a shocker when i heard it...i knew it was coming in some way shape or form...it goes to show he has been lying this whole time. i seriously worry there is deeper mental issues with him right now...he has alienated himself from his friends and family and lives in this false bubble and thinks hes happy...he has convinced himself what his is doing is ok and can be happy living this way...thats delusional!!!!!!
the first think i told my pals that told me this last night was that i went to a card reader recently and she was spot on with EVERYTHING. She also said he wasn't done hurting me yet and i was going to be told something that upset me....we'll case and point!
