Also wanted to add that at one point in the conversation he admitted that he did miss me a little. So to make a long story short, I went over there at midnight, and propositioned him. He agreed though he seemed reluctant and then said it was a mistake after. I think he still has feelings for me but is so unhappy with me that he doesn't want to act on them. He also has that other woman in his life. Maybe. He says they don't have a physical relationship yet even though they have been seeing each other at least 6 months and have known each other for over a year. But my youngest stopped talking about her awhile ago and he says she hasn't seen her in a month though its because the OW is busy. I'm confused now. I did tell him I was done and would no longer do any sort of pursuing. I still love my ex but this isn't working. I had thought that I was getting better. Suggestions anyone?
