Funny metaphor - I'm aircrew for a living. Not a pilot, but I've spent enough time sitting next to them to know when they're BS'ing me - and sometimes BS'ing themsevles...
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12