Hey Purg!

In my travels around my area I shop, workout, got to the beach and get my gas all a very short distance from OW's house. I have not let it stop me from my normal activities.

I had a lot of rage initially, and had a big laugh because she keeps telling my H she is afraid I'm going to hurt her. He knows better than that.

I saw her again 2 days ago, at an intersection. She saw me and pretended not to. I kept my hands in my lap at my stoplight, because a couple months ago when I saw her I did flip her off as she passed me.

As to wearing your wedding ring, it depends on what you have been telling your family. Do they know? It also is a man deterrant, so wear a ring if you don't want to deal with men hitting on you!

I was wearing a ring my dad got me, aptly a nice gold puzzle ring. As I have lost so much weight I am now wearing the band I got married with.

Good Luck!


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!