Purg - I struggle with the same issue of the wedding ring. My W has not worn her rings in months, (I'm not even sure she still has them frown ). I continue to wear mine and often wonder when will be the right time to let it go.

Part of the challenge is that we (me and W) have agreed not to tell many people of our sitch. Although, with W not wearing her rings people must be wondering. Then again when they see me wearing mine, perhaps they put it out of their minds.

Still, I think when I get to the point of being comfortable without the ring, that will probably be the time where my emotional detachment is complete.


Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife