Yes, the old mind reading trick...

Let it go, the longer you do this the easier it gets and everyone has slip ups. Mind reading will drive you bat-sh!t crazy if you let it.

When he asked you those questions what was your response?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss