So today is a somewhat better day. Although, I kind of went "dim" last night without intending to. Or at least as dim as you can get living in a two bedroom condo with your WAS.
And I think it might have made my H think I was in a bad mood or something. I've been reading on here that giving your WAS space is important. Well, the condo we share isn't that big, so it's either we're watching TV together or in two separate rooms (which has been an issue in our M). Anyway, I decided to give him some space last night and watched TV in our bedroom. Plus, I was an emotional wreck. Now, for the past couple of weeks, we've watched TV together almost every night, and from my point of view have gotten along great. We've laughed and talked, but not about R stuff. But, I didn't want to appear like I was smothering him or anything by being in the living room all the time with him.
Well, we hardly talked last night. Just when we had to - excuse me when walking past each other down the hall, are you going to eat dinner, etc. Then he gets into bed, and turns his back to me. He's been back in our bed since Sunday night, and we've been cuddling every night since. But not last night.
I know I was in a sad mood last night, and was trying not to show him, but I think I let that set the tone for the evening, and he mistook that for me not wanting to be bothered. (Which has also occured happened between us in a not so nice way)
Any advice on the giving space when you live in the same house when too much time apart was an issue?
