Originally Posted By: FiatLux

All in all, I want love, I want to be in a R that feeds me, that helps me to grow as a person.



And are you willing to sell yourself , in order to get that ???




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If it doesn't work, then I want her and I to be in healthy better places.


I fixed that for you....


How long has it been since you were in a healthy, emotional place ?

Fiat, you have been around here a long time brother....

What would YOU tell another poster to do if you read that ???

It sux, I'm sorry, blah blah blah....

I would suggest that you take some time, and go back to DB 101 basics right now.

Read DB and DR again

Take some time to sit back and evaluate what YOU want in your life. Envision what you want YOUR future to look like.

What are the things about you, that you "sold off" to get where you are now ???

Find your mojo , and honestly assess if this situation really feeds your soul...