Koija, (Sorry P, don't mean to hijack...)

Almost always us LBS's want a quick fix, it's irresistible. Let us be guy or gal we just want this junk done with, thank you very much. This is natural. We grieve for the life we thought was there but got taken away.

You try this or that and sometimes it doesn't seem to make a big difference with your WAS, fine. They are on a journey at the moment.

Certainly, some positive changes can be attractive to the WAS. Is that all there is to this?

Something I just came across, I need to quote a wise friend here, "Maybe it's not always about trying to fix what is broken. Maybe it's about starting over and creating something better."

Hope this helps,

Coyote again


I haven't posted much in the last seven years. I've been a lurker. Just lookin' to put back all the good help I've gotten...