It's also sad to think that H is pulling away from his parents too. My H is doing the same with him mom- because she has expressed that she feels he could have tried harder/longer to make things work. H only really talks to his dad- the one who had an EA for 10 years then married OW 6 months after his D from mom.... a REAL great example!! (too bad you can't type sarcasm!)
It seems like the these WAS only want to keep contact with people who 'support' their decision, anyone who might make them question their choice is cut off!
Take your time is deciding if she will stay with you when she comes back to visit, don't make that decision tonight.
Find something that makes you happy: a good book, something yummy, a great wine... anything that will bring a smile to your soul. AND get/give lots of hugs and kisses to the babies!! ((((BF))))
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12