Originally Posted By: kolja
I feel like I'm taking it fairly well. Yes it feels like yet another step in the 'wrong' direction, but it doesn't set anything in stone (as 25 and others have pointed out in other people's threads). It's quite possible it's a NECESSARY part of the process as one friend said; two more supportive friends opined that "she needs to be the whole way out and gone before a change of heart is even POSSIBLE" and "I suspect she'll want to come back once she remembers how bad the real world [censored]."

Hey kolja -I'm thinking the same thing for my sitch. I have come to the same realization I this will happen and it will not be the end.

I'm really impressed with the way you have detached. The OM will hurt when I find out.

Meanwhile, work, working out, raising money for ACS, trying to practice simple gratitude and the rest continue.


Me: 44
Bomb: 11/27/11
Divorced:6/12
Life goes on: 6/13


Dogs still like bacon...a lot.