Hi, thanks for the responses. I had forgotten all about this thread truthfully. Things have gotten a little weird to tell the truth. I had been doing a complete no talking about anything but the kids and only when absolutely necessary. Well, needed to talk about the youngest because it was taking forever hashing out her vacation plans in Feb with her dad by email, so I called. Well, I thought I could handle it but ended up talking about things I hadn't intended to. An example is that our 17 year old has been staying overnight at her boyfriend's since her dad took over custody. First time I had brought the subject up and I was pissed. Well, he had been under the impression that I had been letting her so it was okay.A lot of other crap came up also but it cleared the air. I had been so furious at him and now I'm not. So we will see how it works out now.
