No advice, I failed at saving my 1st M even though I DB'd for 2 years. Now 8 yrs later back with my 2nd M, though I am honestly not DBing a 10th of what I did the first time. DB did save me the first time around. So just wanted to say, youre not alone and welcome back though I know youd rather not be here.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11