I agree with oneeleven about trusting that your kids will be fine!

As far as asking where H and OW were, in my sitch I think about it this way, if I want to try and save this M, knowing the dirty details of the things I already suspect is not gonna change my feelings about saving my marriage, it will only upset me more, and as we know when we are DBing we cannot change or stop what the WAS is doing anyway (no matter how much we want to scream and yell at them and tell them how much they are hurting us)!

Hang in there!


Me31 H33
M11
T15
S10, D4
H deploys 01/11
H R&R two weeks 10/11
ILYBNILWY/sep 12/11
homecoming 1/12
pos D 1/13

Let the "real" battle begin!!