@Mach I am not avoiding your questions just thinking about the answers really hard.
Update on BIL
W was to have taken ILs to visit him at hospital around noon time. I called to make sure D was home safe at around 2 pm. W answers the phone and I was stunned. I said sorry just making sure D was home safe. I didn't think you would be home. She tells me that they were told not to come as he would be sedated. I ok thanks and hung up.
Got home from work and as I got my evening attire W says BILs surgery went well. He did not need a colostomy bag as it was far up high. That is a good thing. Than she says that the tumor was 2.5". She asked me if that was too big? I said if you can't feed a family of four with it it is not too big. (kidding ok)
I said that I did not think so but was not sure. My dad's tumor was 2.5 kilos. She asked some stuff but I really did not know and said so. I just asked if the cancer had spread to other organs. She did not know. We sat to eat and we Said one or two words. They are visiting him tomorrow.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
