Remember, it's all supposed to be on hold with OG at the moment. Now I find a gift card in her purse from Christmas, it wasn't an offer from the shops, it was a present from OG. So she had lied to me about this. I'm thinking I might throw in the towel on this, if she can't be honest with me now it's out in the open and she had promised to be straight with everything, I'm struggling to see the point in continuing even though we're still in the same bed.
Is that all it will take for you to call it quits? Maybe you're right. Maybe you should just go ahead and throw in the towel. But throw it in based on the fact you don't have what it takes to get through this....but don't base it on what you see as a lie.
First of all, how do you know she lied? Is it solely on the fact you found a gift card in her purse that was a Christmas gift from OM?
Why were you looking in her purse, and where exactly was the card?
You did say it was a gift card? Not a receipt, right?
Where I come from, the gift card purchases something in the shop for whatever amount the card holds. It's used like a check. Therefore, she would have to leave the card with the shop if she was using it to purchase something.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
