Wendy, I'm glad to see that your have your financial papers filed away somewhere safe.
I'm glad your h is talking to you about houses in your old home town. It sounds like he's thinking clearly at the moment. I do hope and pray that the ow will leave him alone, but like you, she'll call again if something comes up. Let's pray that he is stronger and can tell her no or better yet, not take her calls.
You've been doing a great job of sitting and observing. I always advise people to sit quietly and the answers will fall into their laps. I'm sure the same will happen for you too.
How's the weather there? What's the temp? I was there a few years ago and enjoyed my time there. Everyone was very friendly and I can't say enough about the beaches and waterfalls and most importantly the food!
Wendy, take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.